When Your Mother Is Not At Home & Your Father Is Lost At Sea

Calming The Waves of Confusion, Anxiety & Neglect

When Your Mother Is Not At Home & Your Father Is Lost At Sea

When you are not asked what you need as a child you learn to stuff your needs down. When your needs are “too much” as a child you end up denying your heart and soul.

    1. Welcome - A Message From Iana

    2. Introduction - When Your Mother Is Not At Home and Your Father Is Lost At Sea

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    3. Dominant Non-Dominant Hand Writing

    1. 1.0 - Introduction - Awakening To What Hurts

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    2. 1.1 - Where Is My Mother, Where is Love

    3. 1.2 - Is It Me?

    4. 1.3 - I Am Confused But Refuse To Admit It

    1. 2.0 - Introduction - My Denied Needs

    2. 2.1 - I Want Love, I Want To Receive Love, But I Never Believe I Should or Can Have It

    3. 2.2 - Is This Why I Can’t Ask For What I Want

    4. 2.3 - Playing Perpetrator / Passive Victim and Thinking I Am Not Hurting Anyone Else

    1. 3.0 - Introduction - Why Am I Angry But Do Not Know It

    2. 3.1 - Staying Shut Down—I Must Not Deserve Love or to Live

    3. 3.2 - Don’t Make Me Feel—Using Fear To Control Your Self and A Partner

    4. 3.3 - I Live In My Head and Do Not Know Why

    1. 4.0 - Introduction - Finding The Divine Within You

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    2. 4.1 - Letting Love Guide You Home To You

    3. 4.2 - Entering Into Your Body and Facing Your Father and Mother’s Absence

    4. 4.3 - Releasing The Hold Of Your Father’s Ego To Shut You Down

    1. 5.0 - Introduction - Ending the Battle With Your Repressive Inner Masculine or Feminine Know It All

    2. 5.1 - Turning Your Anger Into Pure Power and Coming Out of Denial

    3. 5.2 - Turning To the Light of Your Sacred Masculine and Sacred Feminine

    4. 5.3 - Hierosgamous—The Divine Marriage Between Your Inner Masculine and Inner Feminine

About this course

  • $88.88
  • 26 lessons
  • 3 hours of video content

How You Benefit - Discover How To Transform:

Discover how to heal your hidden and untouchable anger, loss, grief, emotional gaps, and inabilities to communicate and own your own needs while creating a new embodied relationship with love, sex, money, success, career, and your health.

  • Fulfilling your life work.

  • Avoiding your feelings.

  • Turning against your Self.

  • Sabotaging a love relationship.

  • Difficulties saying what you need.

  • Hidden anger, blame, fear, and resentment.

  • Loving your Self instead of rejecting your Self.

  • Old beliefs that get in the way of feeling whole.

  • Shutting down when your love quotient get too expanded.

  • The anger and fear that takes center stage when you least expect it to.

What People Are Saying

Growing into your own person from birth until your late teens sets the foundation for how you create your relationship to money, sexuality, home, love partnership, life purpose, and your emotional fluidity and well-being.

" I had no idea that I could come out of feeling lost and confused, hidden passive-aggressive tendencies, all the while covering up my angst and sorrow 95% of the time. I am grateful for this great course.”

A.E., Los Angeles, California

“When I realized that I had been hiding and shut down because the pain within my body was so strong that since I was a small child, I had no way to deal with it except to live through my head. My relationships suffered, I couldn’t keep a partner, make the money I wanted to make, or ever feel happy. Doing inner work meant hurting inside, and I had no interest in hurting even more. Until I took the course When Your Mother Is Not Home and Your Father Is Lost At Sea, I had no idea that I could come out of feeling lost and confused, hidden passive-aggressive tendencies, all the while covering up my angst and sorrow 95% of the time. I am grateful for this great course.”

"When Your Mother... addresses the longing that I have carried in side of myself, (along with dozens of other topics meant to help me become more aware), longings that I could not fulfill, because I have not known how much I needed my mother’s energies returned to me as a very young child. "

M.G., Great Neck, New York

“I have felt embarrassed lately with the amount of anger coming up and not dealing with it very well. I have felt a lot of shame and self blame and the veils around my denial of my childhood pain are coming up just through choosing to be more aware. I love When Your Mother Is Not Home and Your Father Is Lost At Sea because it addresses the longing that I have carried in side of myself, (along with dozens of other topics meant to help me become more aware), longings that I could not fulfill, because I have not known how much I needed my mother’s energies returned to me as a very young child. I basically raised myself and am only now growing up. Up until now I have been seeking energies, love, and money from people who can not and will not give to me what I have needed. Thank you, Iana for creating When Your Mother Is Not Home and Your Father Is Lost At Sea.”

“When you feel that you can’t make it through your feelings of inadequacy, unknown pain, self-doubt, life-doubt, and love-doubt, take this course.”

K.S., Salem, Oregon

“When you feel that you can’t make it through your feelings of inadequacy, unknown pain, self-doubt, life-doubt, and love-doubt, take this course.”

Frequently Asked Questions

When you are given the pain of your ancestry only love can mend your wounds and return you to YOU.

  • What do you mean by the phrase, “when your mother is not home?”

    This means that when a woman is not able to process her own feelings, BE in her body and BE fully present for her own feelings and for her child’s feelings, that a child never learns how to embody their own feelings, or BE in their own body. The child grows up afraid of BEing in their body, feeling feelings, communicating directly and clearly in a relationship whether with a lover, or with a business colleague, or honestly with a family member. The child creates their relationship with their body just like their mother created with their psyche and body, until realization and healing occurs. A mother is meant to help their child embody their feelings and thoughts, and when a mother is disconnected from her body out of anger, fear of her partner, losing control of her own life, fearing her own power, and fear of breaking out of the expectations placed upon her by her family system, ancestry, culture, or religion, she can “leave her home, her body” and suffer the consequences, or empower her Self to be a vessel for her soul to live in.

  • Will this course help me to feel like I can BE me and stop taking on other people’s undealt with stuff?

    Yes, you will move through your own self projections of BEing an “orphan”and end feeling responsible for your mother and/or fathers well-being and life, and begin taking true responsibility for your own life and happiness.

  • Will “When Your Mother Is Not Home and Your Father Is Lost At Sea” help me to stop running from intimacy, my own pain, and blocking God and Source from giving to me what I really want?

    Yes, you will enter into your rebirth process in your own timing and at your own pace. The faster you let go of your fear of BEing sovereign and One unto your Self, and release needing someone else to take care of you emotionally, the quicker you can free your Self of your addiction to pain.

Find The Divine Within You

Beyond your opinions, judgments, fears, and ways that you respond to life and your Self exists a steady and powerful Source of love, power, and infinite wisdom. Once found you realize the opportunity that you have to BE your True Self, and to go beyond living in separation and denial.